Monday, November 25, 2013

God is Faithful Indeed!


GOTCHA DAY AT LAST! After all these months of waiting and hoping and praying, Daniel and Matthew are finally with our family! We cannot express the joy and wonder of God's grace to us in letting us bring these wonderful boys into our family!

 

This morning we got to skype with our family for about two hours. Daniel and Matthew are at the hotel with my parents/little siblings and seem to be doing well.


They both want to be called by their Chinese names which we fully expected and fortunately we have been pronouncing them correctly all this time so we already could say them.

We tried out our (extremely short) list of Chinese phrases and Daniel laughed at us. Matthew just sat there and stared. We hear that Matthew isn't feeling too great and was very sad to leave his friends. McDonald's helped him feel a little better but he was very quiet and subdued during the beginning of the skype call.


He didn't respond to much over skype until Daniel remembered to give my dad a flash drive and Matthew brought out his own. They both had pictures of the boys and their friends and Matthew perked up a lot and showed us all the pictures and chattered away in Chinese telling us who everyone was. He laughed at all Daniel's pictures and then proceeded to show us almost every item from the backpack he brought with him and wouldn't remove the item from the skype screen until he received appropriate response (which meant loud praise). He seems convinced that we understand Chinese and told us what everything was. Mom is going to ask the guide tomorrow what everything is. There seemed to be some soccer awards which Matthew was particularly proud of.

Daniel showed us all his art and some of his photos though he was embarrassed of some and didn't want us to see (so Matthew showed us). News is that Daniel and Joshua hit it off at once and spent the afternoon drawing. They held an arm-wrestling match for us to see over skype.


Mom and Dad were happy that Matthew showed us all his stuff as earlier he had been unwilling to show them his prized possessions. Matthew opened up more to us than he did to them and it was a good breakthrough. He seems much happier now than before he knew us.

Both Matthew and Daniel knew my brothers' names and they knew that John Morgan plays violin (it was in a note that we sent them). They also knew the happy birthday song and sung it for Stephen (whose birthday is today). My name, Abigail, presented more trouble for them ("L's" are not too easy) but they tried. Matthew took out his photo album (that we had sent them) and practiced everyone's name. The dog's name (Posie) was extremely humorous to him and he laughed every time he said it.

Practicing the dog's name

Daniel and Matthew were acting silly and playing with us by the end of skype and we had a good time after the initial awkwardness wore off. Daniel is all smiles and Matthew started smiling after the flash drives came out.

Praise the Lord! Daniel and Matthew are doing well.

Daniel with Mama




This is how Matthew felt until after McDonald's and skype with his older siblings. My parents say he is in great spirits now besides feeling a little sick.
McDonald's for Dinner!

Daniel started unpacking as soon as he got in the hotel room. Yeah, he was really ready for a family. He knows that our family is for good.

Sunday, November 24, 2013

China at Last!

My parents are safely in Guangzhou! They arrived last night and are up today ready to go get the boys this afternoon (early morning our time). 

 Joshua at breakfast in China! (Notice the lack of Chinese food + chopsticks) 


Julia and Mom at breakfast!

The boys' room waiting for them! 


In keeping with tradition started by my great-grandmother, we have made the boys their Christmas stockings to match everyone else's. Since the boys will be home for this Christmas (not just next like we thought!), we are happy we got them done in time! 



Friday, November 22, 2013

We are coming, Daniel and Matthew!


We should have written something some time ago, but we have been happily busy. Can you guess the reason for our busyness?

WE ARE LEAVING FOR CHINA TOMORROW!!!!

Yes, tomorrow, bright and early we will be boarding a plane to China, to our Daniel and Matthew. Monday afternoon (Sunday night/Monday morning American time), we will finally get to meet our boys!

Just 3 more days before two more orphans have a family. Three more days before we can finally hug the boys we have loved so long. Three more days before . . . our lives change forever.

Please pray for our safe travel. Please pray that frustration and high stress levels do not prevent us from rejoicing in our journey. Please pray for our children left here that they will not go crazy waiting. Please pray that technology works and we can communicate daily with our three oldest here. Please pray that Daniel and Matthew are at least semi-prepared for us and please pray we will soon be united as a family in person and spirit.

Our daughter will be posting while we're in China. We will keep you updated on our adventures.

We cannot wait for our boys to meet all of you wonderful people!
 
We are coming, Daniel and Matthew! We will be there so very soon! 

Sunday, September 15, 2013

LOA

We received our "Letter of Seeking Confirmation from Adopter" (LOA) on Wednesday! (This is the letter from China that we have to sign to confirm our intent to adopt these children).

The next step is further approval from the US government. We sent off for this but it takes at least three weeks. According to our caseworker, November is a good date to have in mind for travel. We are trying not to get our hopes up, but at the same time, we are working on preparing the best we can. Next blog post we'll post pictures of our current work in progress...their bedroom!

Please pray that we can bring home Daniel and Matthew in November! Since Wednesday we have all had the realization of "WOW! THIS IS REAL!" Please pray that Daniel and Matthew are being prepared for this same realization!



Tuesday, July 23, 2013

DTC!!!

We are "Dossier to China"! 


Today we just got news that our dossier is on its way China! In a few weeks, our dossier will be processed by the Chinese government.

We only have a few more steps, but each can take a long time. It will still be several long months before we can go get Daniel and Matthew. Please pray for them and pray for us and pray for our paperwork. We want to get them so badly and it is hard to wait! We love you Daniel and Matthew!


Monday, July 8, 2013

Approval Notice

It is an exciting moment when this comes in the mail!




Now we send off our last dossier documents to be certified in Tallahassee and the Chinese consulate in Houston! It is a lot to gather and research but we hope to have it off today! 



Please continue to pray for us and the boys! 

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Racing Against Time

Dear Friends,

Yes, I am writing about this again. Yes, this time I am pleading.

This little one is aging out in less than one year. 10 months to be exact. 10 months.


We desperately want him to be adopted. He desperately needs a family.

I recently read that the average life-span of a aged-out child in China is 10 years from the time they age out. Ten years. We cannot let this happen to this boy. We cannot. It is unjust. It is wrong.

Please consider, seriously, adopting this boy. Yes, you. Do not let finances deter you. This is a child's life we are talking about. Finances will come. God provides. Do not let a feeling of ineptness deter you. This is a child's life. God will enable you.

Please, please get the word out about this boy! Please help us find a family to adopt him!

And please pray! This is a race against time. God alone can send a family for this child.